Lesson 4.6

Managing My Work and Work Needs

Associate hanging clothes

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In this lesson, you will continue to learn how to coach AWARE behaviors. Specifically, you will learn about (1) helping associates identify their mistakes; (2) helping associates learn to correct their mistakes; and (3) teaching associates to seek help when appropriate and needed.


Helping Associates Identify Their Mistakes

From the following list, choose and complete one or more activities that best apply to your situation.

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Activity 1

As a group, review the “Identifies Own Mistakes” section in Behavior Management in Work Settings (Marr and Roessler, 49–51) by discussing the questions below for each of the three methods described:

  • In this context, what is a team meeting? Discrimination training? Feedback and positive reinforcement?
  • What are some of the benefits of using this method?
  • Have you implemented this method before?
    • If yes,
      • In what situations?
      • What have you done?
      • What results have you seen?
      • What advice would you give others about this method?
    • If no,
      • In what situations might it be appropriate and effective to use this method?
      • How would you implement this method?
        • What would you say and do in a training meeting?
        • How would you follow up with your associates?
  • What other situations would call for using this method with associates?
  • When using this method, what issues might you need to approach carefully? Explain.

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Activity 2

As a group, read the scenarios at the end of this activity. After reading them, discuss as a group:

  • Which of the three methods described in Behavior Management in Work Settings is appropriate to use in each scenario? Explain.
  • Which additional methods would you use to help associates identify their mistakes?

Divide into small groups. Each group will role-play one of the following scenarios. The class will comment and give helpful feedback to each group. Discuss any questions, concerns, or insights you have after all groups have presented their scenarios.

Scenario 1:

You have heard that two of the associates you work with have been yelling at each other. This is not the first time this has happened in your store.

Scenario 2:

An associate is having a hard time staying on task when the supervisor is not around.

Scenario 3:

An associate is not sorting electronics properly.

Scenario 4:

Clothing is not being taken off the shelves at the correct time.

Scenario 5:

An associate keeps assigning incorrect prices to clothing items.

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Activity 3

Read and discuss the “Identifies Own Mistakes” section in Behavior Management in Work Settings (Marr and Roessler, 49–51).

Divide into three groups to read and discuss the three different strategies (team meeting, discrimination training, and feedback and positive reinforcement) to help associates learn how to identify their mistakes. Have each group present what they learned. Discuss ways to use this information in your work at Deseret Industries.

Ponder methods that have been successful in helping associates learn how to identify their own mistakes. Share your success stories with the group.

Helping Associates Learn to Correct Their Mistakes

From the following list, choose and complete one or more activities that best apply to your situation.

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Activity 1

Divide into small groups. Make sure your group includes at least two people who have read “Changing Children’s Behavior: How to Help Them Stop Doing What They Shouldn’t” (Dean and Paula Sorensen, Ensign, Dec. 1977, 19–22) and two who have read “Born of Goodly Parents” (Elder Dallas N. Archibald, Ensign, Nov. 1992, 25–26).

In your groups, summarize your readings by discussing:

  • Three things from the article that you can do to help associates correct their mistakes. Be specific. For example, instead of saying, “Be a good example,” share, “Make a special effort when correcting associates, and show them the right way to do colorization.”
  • Two questions or concerns you have from your reading. Be as specific as possible. For example: “The article talked about not forcing others to do things, but I am wondering how I can differentiate between forcing and being firm as I correct behavior or mistakes.”
  • One “aha” moment, additional insight you gained when reading in preparation for today’s meeting, or a positive experience related to one of the items in your reading.

After each of you has had a chance to share with your group, individually take a minute to ponder which of the items your group discussed you would like to improve on. Write three in your learner's journal.

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Activity 2

As a group, review concepts emphasized in the readings: “Changing Children’s Behavior: How to Help Them Stop Doing What They Shouldn’t” (Dean and Paula Sorensen, Ensign, Dec. 1977, 19–22) and “Born of Goodly Parents” (Elder Dallas N. Archibald, Ensign, Nov. 1992, 25–26). Share additional insights and ask questions, especially about applying the concepts. Have a volunteer list each concept on the board.

Divide into pairs. Each pair will choose one or two concepts from the board. Take two to three minutes to prepare to role-play a situation in which you would effectively apply the concept(s) to help an associate correct his or her mistake. It could be a situation you are currently facing with an associate, or one you faced in the past.

At least three pairs should present their role-play to the whole class.

After the role-plays are done, as a group discuss:

  • What were some of the things you learned from the role-plays?
  • How else could you apply these concepts to helping associates correct their mistakes?
  • What questions do you have about helping associates correct their mistakes?

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Activity 3

Invite three volunteers to be the facilitator, timekeeper, and points-keeper for this activity.

Divide the class into two groups. In less than two minutes review the concepts, methods, and principles addressed in your readings. After the time is up, both teams come up to the front of the room, each team in a row, with each team member facing a member of the other team.

The facilitator will read a question or a scenario (in the “Lesson Resources” section, Resource 1). The individual from each team who is closest to the facilitator will have the chance to answer the first question. The first of the two contenders to raise his or her hand gets to answer. If the answer is correct, the team gets one point. If the person does not get the correct response or does not respond within 30 seconds, the other team gets 30 seconds to answer it and gets the point if correct. The team that gives an accurate response will have an additional 30 seconds to come up with an additional scenario of how to apply the concept in the question. The same person who originally responded is to give the scenario. If the response is appropriate the team will earn three additional points. The game resumes with the next team members’ turn to answer a question.

Teaching Associates to Seek Help when Appropriate and Needed

“Two types of help-seeking problems commonly occur in the workplace. Some workers do not seek help when it is needed; others seek help almost continuously" (Marr and Roessler, Behavior Management in Work Settings, 50). The following activities will give you tools to deal with such associates.

From the following list, choose and complete one or more activities that best apply to your situation.

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Activity 1

Divide into three groups. The facilitator will assign one of the three different strategies presented in the “Seeking Help When Help Is Needed” section from Behavior Management in Work Settings (Marr and Roessler, 50–51) to each group. Each group will read the assigned strategy and prepare to present the following to the rest of the attendees:

  • What the strategy consists of (whom to apply it to, what to do/say, when to use it, etc.)
  • How the strategy applies to Deseret Industries (whom to apply it to, what to do/say, when to use it, etc.)
  • Prepare a role-play to show how to apply the strategy at Deseret Industries.

Regroup with all attendees. Each group can present the items in any order, as long as all of them are presented.

After each presentation, feel free to ask questions, and share any examples or stories that might help others apply these methods at Deseret Industries.

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Activity 2

As a group, browse through the strategies presented in Behavior Management in Work Settings (Marr and Roessler, 50–51). Then discuss:

  • How would you summarize each strategy?
  • What are the benefits of using each of these strategies?
  • When implementing these strategies, what issues might you need to approach carefully?
  • If you have ever used any of these strategies, what results did you see?
  • What additional methods have you used to help associates ask for help?
  • How do you help associates who are always seeking help?

Ponder and Plan

“What Lack I Yet?”

Seek to identify a personal or business gap or need.

Spend a few minutes silently pondering what you've discussed during this lesson. Listen as the Holy Ghost helps you identify areas where you can improve. Record your impressions in your learner's journal under the question “What Lack I Yet?”

“What Must I Do?”

Seek ways to close the gap or develop the required talent(s) to meet the need.

With the guidance of the Spirit, create your plan of how you will improve and close the gap(s) you have identified. You may use one or more of the exercises below, your own strategy, or a combination of both. Record this plan in your learner's journal under “What Must I Do?”

  • Use a technique learned from Behavior Management in Work Settings at work this week to help associates improve their ability to identify and correct mistakes, and seek help when appropriate.
  • Implement an idea from either “Born of Goodly Parents” or “Changing Children’s Behavior.”

After a few minutes, those who are comfortable doing so can share their impressions with the group.

“Therefore, What?”

Seek understanding, and then share what you learned.

During the week, focus on implementing the plan you created. Record your impressions or lessons learned in your learner's journal under “Therefore, What?” You will be given time at the beginning of next week's lesson to share your experience with the group.

“No power or influence can or ought to be maintained by virtue of the priesthood, only by persuasion, by long-suffering, by gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned; By kindness, and pure knowledge, which shall greatly enlarge the soul without hypocrisy, and without guile—Reproving betimes with sharpness, when moved upon by the Holy Ghost; and then showing forth afterwards an increase of love toward him whom thou hast reproved, lest he esteem thee to be his enemy.”

D&C 121:41–43

Lesson Resources

Resource 1

Questions and scenarios:

  1. 1 In Elder Archibald’s article “Born of Goodly Parents,” what does he say will likely cause rejection or rebellion?
  2. 2 According to Elder Archibald, what should our teaching, leading, and correction create in the people we work with?
  3. 3 Should you correct in anger? Why or why not?
  4. 4 According to the Sorensens, what should you be thinking when you see an associate misbehave or repeatedly make mistakes?
  5. 5 Should you punish associates with a penalty when they make mistakes?
  6. 6 How soon should a penalty be lifted?
  7. 7 When a penalty is given, what ideas should you highlight?
  8. 8 When and how can you show an increase of love to an associate you have corrected?
  9. 9 Associate Jane has left clutter in the work area three times in the last week. What principles or methods would you use to help her identify and correct her mistake?
  10. 10 Among the received merchandise, you have found aerosols, liquid paint, a chair with a missing leg, and packaged food. How would you help associates identify and correct their mistakes?

Answers

  1. 1 Using force
  2. 2 High level of self-esteem; feeling important and capable
  3. 3 No. Brother and Sister Sorensen say that usually the first impulse is not the right one, and Elder Archibald explicitly states we are to correct “not in anger.”
  4. 4 What should the associate be doing instead, and how can I encourage it?
  5. 5 Sorensen explains that at times this is necessary, but to be effective it must be done with wisdom, justice, and consistency; otherwise, it can badly bruise feelings and create long-term resentments.
  6. 6 As soon as the behavior improves
  7. 7 Make sure there is a connection between misbehavior and penalty; make sure associates know what they should and shouldn’t do.